Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. Ephesians 5:25 (MSG)
If you haven’t already noticed, men and women are very different. If you do not learn to appreciate these differences, you may end up feeling frustrated with the opposite sex. This is especially destructive within a marriage or dating relationship. You may inadvertently destroy each other’s self-esteem as well as the intimate bond you share.
On Saturday we covered the unique needs within a man. Today let’s look at what women generally crave.
- She needs to be cherished. Material possessions, status and wealth will not cut it. A woman needs to be shown that she matters. When it comes to marriage and dating, a wise man never lets sports, work or friends come before her.
- She needs to be understood and listened to. She wants her feelings validated and accepted, and to know her opinions are valued.
- She needs respect. Show it by honouring her needs, wishes and rights without trying to manipulate or control her.
If you are a woman in a relationship, have you communicated your needs to him with love and patience while trying to meet his needs? If you are man in a relationship, blow her mind by asking if you are meeting these needs in her life. Your willingness to learn about her will show her how much you really care.