Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NKJV)
When we share our lives with others, life becomes infinitely more enjoyable.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 tells us that friends make us stronger and more resilient. Regardless of this fact, many people struggle to get close to people. Yesterday we covered three reasons why this might be the case. Today we will cover four more:
1. Take the time. Between jobs, extra-curricular activities, family time, volunteering and housework, some find that they have no time. Friendship time needs to be scheduled or it won’t happen. Make it part of your plans.
2. Be un-offendable. Are your expectations unrealistic? Being someone’s friend doesn’t mean you will be invited to every party they host. They won’t always be able to drop everything for you. Be willing to accept what your friends have to give.
3. Be positive. Complaints about the weather are a great conversation starter but if the whole night is a vent session, people won’t feel uplifted after being with you. Try to be more encouraging.
4. Accept. If you cannot accept others as they are, people will walk on eggshells around you. Great friends still make mistakes.
Great friendships are developed over time with some intentional effort. Tomorrow we will cover a few great keys to building great relationships. The ability to make friends can be developed just like any other skill. If you practice regularly and open yourself up, you will find that you become great at it!