But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’”
Matthew 4:4 (NKJV)
The idea that we should resist our feelings is an unpopular one today. In fact, feelings seem to be the number one concern. Parents often put their children’s happiness first, but what about living with honour, integrity, and generosity? It seems that we are being influenced to chase our feelings.
The fact is that our feelings are deceptive. We cannot submit our decisions to our feelings, especially if they contradict God’s Word.
For example, what if you’re at work and the thought pops in your mind that you don’t feel appreciated. I’m sure we’ve all felt that way at times, but what if you allow that feeling to dictate your choices? As you go about your day, you might start to look for proof that people don’t appreciate you. Even if it’s not true, if you’re focused on being offended, you’ll start misinterpreting what others say and do, and you’ll end up ruining relationships.
As believers, we don’t live our lives by feelings. We live by truth— the truth of God’s Word. I understand the importance of feelings.
Acknowledge them, and talk with someone you trust about any persistent negative feelings you have. At the same time, realize that sometimes feelings come from the enemy. Sometimes they are planted in your mind to get you off track, and you need to resist them.
How will you know the difference? Turn to God’s Word. If those feelings are taking you away from His promises or principles, resist them. Submit to God ‘s Word, and His grace will enable you to decipher the truth.