For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. Romans 8:18 (NKJV)
Proper perspective in life brings joy.
Have you ever stood in line behind someone who was ticked off before ever getting to the check out? First, they didn’t get the parking spot they wanted. Then, they landed the shopping cart with the wobbly wheel, and now they’re flipping out on the teenage cashier because she gave them the wrong change.
When we’re unhappy, often it’s because we’ve become problem-focused, and we’re viewing things in black or white (either it’s an issue, or it’s not). But handling life from a small, often self-focused perspective feeds discontentment. When we choose a more outward, solution-based focus where we’re willing to see shades of grey, we’re happier. By choosing to keep perspective amidst problems, we then don’t lose sight of the big picture in life.
Truthfully, no one tiptoes through the tulips every day. Everyone deals with people butting in line, inconveniences and hurt. But knowing we have Jesus and an incredible, heavenly future should correct our perspective. You could be upset, but then hear about someone who lost their spouse, causing you to rethink what’s truly important. Maybe while racing into work late, you come upon a bad accident, and you regain perspective and slow down to get there safely.
Holding a big picture mentality on life and reminding ourselves of our eternal value helps us lead fuller, joyful lives. Take care of things, but don’t sweat the small stuff unnecessarily. Your life serves a big purpose and an even bigger God. Take joy in that!