Love endures long and is patient and kind; Love never is envious nor boiled over with jealousy, it’s not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily. 1 Corinthians 13:4 (AMPC)
December is a month of giving and getting. As we make lists of things we would like to give others, we drop hints about what we would like to get in return. Gift exchanges can add so much excitement to the holidays!
December is also a time when many people become fixated on perfection. They want to find that perfect Christmas tree, hosted perfect party and buy the perfect present for each of their loved ones.
This desire for perfection often seeps into their expectation of other people. And when people fall short—as they always do—it causes them much grief. In fact, the unhappiest people are often those who demand perfection in their life and dwell on the imperfections of others.
Relationships cannot thrive under the microscope of perfection. People who seek perfection in their relationships will always be disappointed and feel lonely and disconnected from loved ones. If love were only reserved for those who are perfect, it wouldn’t need to endure or be patient. (1 Corinthians 13:4) God knows your loved ones are flawed. He wants you to love them anyway.
Of course, you still need to have boundaries and protect yourself from those who habitually hurt you. However, most people mean well. If you want to experience a joyful and happy holiday season, accept people as they are. Step away from any expectation you may have for perfection and accept imperfection—in your own life and in those around you!